That's strange that we all have this issue with showering. I thought I was the only one. I usually take a shower when my mate is home, but if he's late returning for whatever reason, I make sure the door is locked, get my phone, take it into the bathroom and lock that door too.

Most days I feel too tired to shower (I envision myself walking into it with all of my clothes on), but I do it anyway. It's a hassle, but I feel better about myself once I'm clean. It's also relaxing, at least when my mate is here.