OMG, you have guy friends that actually talk like that in front of you? Sheesh, these a-holes need to be kicked to the curb. the problem isn't you, of course, it's them. They're either a bunch of callous, clueless douches, and/or they're trying to get a rise out of you.
Don't let guys talk like that in your hearing. You're a lady - it's in your handle. If these guys are family members, tell them you won't listen to crap like that and leave the room. If these guys are your friends, you should get new friends - because you deserve better than this.
When men do this in women's hearing, there's more than meets they eye- they have an agenda - they want to shock you or belittle you by association, and it's really bad news. My sympathies are with you!
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Originally Posted by OurLadysTears
I'm sick of every relationship resulting in the grass is greener on the other side. It is either significant others having trouble letting go of a girl from their past, always looking at other females and desiring them, or whatever else you can think up.. you name it. I'm tired of hearing people who are so into finding someone based on looks and so tired of hearing people belittle those who don't look like supermodels. So many times I've heard men say, "I'm tired of only getting fat chics!" I'm not just trying to attack guys, because I know some women can be just as cruel. I'm just tired of feeling like I'm always in a competition. Is there ever a point where people can just be content with what they have? I've rarely come across a couple who is content with one another. Anyone else feel this way?
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