Oh dear, this was the guy you were with saying these things? Who said the stuff about "All I can get is fat chicks?" That wasn't your boyfriend, was it?
I can relate about guys who moon over their exes. If a guy like that is fresh from a breakup, he's not emotionally available. You gotta pass on dudes like that - the timing is off, and you could be Catherine Deneuve and it wouldn't work out. They're not ready.
And some guys are into making whoever they're with feel like $hit on a stick by forcing comparisons all the time to keep you unsure and off balance. Been there, done that. Insecure men do that, and men who are very angry. Just know that it's never about you - it's always about them.
There's a classic book you've probably heard of called Women Who Love Too Much. I recommend it - in fact it's probably time for me to re-read it again!
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Originally Posted by OurLadysTears
I don't expect a relationship to be perfect. I know that at times they can be hard work, but I'm tired of feeling like it has to be a competition to keep your significant others attention. It sucks because I was even in a relationship with a man with two children and they would even bring up ex's in comparison because they realized it would stimulate a reaction. I realize you can't blame a child for such situation, but shoot, you can't win for nothing! I feel like I have to take a superwoman pill to be placed on top priority here!
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