I got what you meant and my point remains....it IS all relative and I do not care if others have a lot and flaunt it and some have little and waste or not...I think its their money or lack of it to spend as they wish...I cannot say someone wastes money cause to them it is NOT a waste to say eat twinkies every day...I find there will ALWAYS be those who have more than me..and those who have less and it will always be that way...I do not judge them its not my place cause its not my money...I will help anyone out I can when I can and if others do not like my lifestyle...before or now....f ' em