Since the boyfriend came in to the picture the daughter and I are not close. She used to be my support system.Someone I could talk too, hang with etc....She is in therapy with boyfriend and now has discovered I was a lot of her problems. She moved me here six years ago to live with her but she was so abusive I moved out three months later and live alone with two kitties. I always went there, hung out at her request etc but the boyfriend consumes her and she does not talk to her brother or sister(alcohol issues but both are sober) and has given up all her friends so its not just me she is mad at. We tried to have a talk some time ago but it turned rather horrible.I left crying and we have not discussed any issues since. I feel I have lost her completely and I will not ask for anything now because of the relationship. I am suppose to have surgery soon and stay with her a few days but last year I had surgery and stayed with her she told me I was a baby, grumpy etc and told me when I had to leave and go home...six days. I had a hip replacement...In September I will have a second hip replacement on other hip. I don't know if I should stay there. I don't want to get kicked out...this is part of the story...I feel I have now have no support system. Son has moved to Fl. and other daughter is three hours away.

daughter is 42 and she has two kids who stay p.t. with her three days..then four with the father....daughter works for the feds, has an excellent position, boyfriend lives there