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Old Jul 25, 2011, 11:19 PM
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Originally Posted by kaliope View Post
i question why you are still there for your ex when he treated you like trash. why would you be friends with someone that treated you so poorly and continues to disparage you? to end the arguments, the best thing to do is unfriend the ex, that will discontinue any negative interaction online.
This is a bad habit of mine. I've done it as long as I can remember.. If I walk out on someone no matter how badly they've treated me I feel like a bad person. I think it comes from how I am with my mother (she's been emotionally abusive but I'm forced to play nice with her as she's family). Plus, my ex has a habit of coming to me for advice and to help me with things.. and I don't know I feel bad for him sometimes. Plus I've known him for over 2 years and I would rather us just slowly grow apart as we're doing now than just walk away.. I'm too nice, I know, and I also know that stop talking to him MIGHT fix everything but I don't know. My boyfriend doesn't want me to just stop talking to him for his sake, he just wants my ex to stop being such a jerk?
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