Hey Lady. I think it sounds like you have an extremely caring husband that is just going a bit overboard on trying to protect you from your manic self. Make a list of what you put him through, and you'll see where he is coming from. There is nothing more terrifying to a spouse that has been through a manic episode than to see one coming. I can see all the things he's doing as being overprotective trying to keep you safe and your marriage together. I think divorce is a huge mistake. You'd be hard-pressed to find someone who would be so so forgiving. He just needs to lighten up a bit. I think a few sessions with a good marriage counselor will straighten things out.