I didn't know this-- but it sure does make sense.
wonder if it has something to do with feeling "connected" with another.... not alone..... feeling alone is SO lonely.
I never saw that post by DocJohn either-- thank you for bringing it up and thanks also to DocJohn in writing it.
hmmmmm..... it can be out of ones comfort zone though.... so scary for some of us to come out from behind the scrub.

(i occasionally push myself to speak up and then I truly regret it every time

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wish it wasn't this way.........
thanks Byz.
fins