Hello

I have just stumbled across this thread....I usually post in 'romantic feelings for my t' forum but thought I'd look over here....but anyway, I am astonished by the relationship with your t and coming from me, believe me its saying something as I had a very unhealthy relationship with my ex t. I know, from my own pain, that an unhealthy relationship with t can be very very serious and have a terrible impact on your every day life. I dont want to tell you to stop seeing t as I know this is earier said than done and noone has the right to 'tell' you to do this, however, i would urge you to seek advice from another professional. Another thing that strikes me is, you don't really seem that bothered about what's going on but more about how many times your thread is viewed.....why is this important to you condisering whats going on? I can tell you that, when I update my thread, the last thing I am bothered about is how many views I have. I am bothered about the replies i recieve but strictly because I want and need the support. If you need support then fair enough but this seems like a bit of a game going on......I am sorry if I am wrong but it just upsets me because there are ppl (like me) that are really having a tough time and need the support so bad and to think someone isnt taking it (unhealthy relationship with t) serioulsy really plays with me.

So I guess all I want to know is, how do YOU feel about your relationship with t?
Are you happy to continue therapy with your t?
And what can we at PC do to help?

Wishing you all the best.....sending you lots of luv and hugs

I know how painful it can be attached to an unethical t....I hope soon you are able to put this to rest and move forward.....whatever you decide to do, I for one will support you but i just need to understand whats going on inside your head