Hi,

I agree with the others that you have alot on your plate right now. As for the lamictal, 125mg is definitely not a therapeudic dose (200mg is the norm). Personally, I take 300mg, which allows me to cut down to only two other meds (Adderall and birth control) which I think helps because you're not dealing with the sometimes compromising and frustrating effects of mixing meds.

About your husband, in my experience it's REALLY hard to recover with someone who's also unstable around. What could possibly help is if your husband is commited to controlling his disorders, and/or is willing to attend a few session with your therapist (if you have one). Your therapist will/does have a good background on your difficulties, and might be able to offer constructive advice as to things that both of you could do to help eachother.

Good luck!

Jessie