<font color="purple">I was the one in my marriage that cheated..... My husband and I have worked through that and now yrs later we have the best marriage ever! It was a long hard journey to get to where we are now though, took yrs of working together with the key element being open honest communication. In the beginning of the regaining his trust I was subjected to constant check up calls at work, friends houses, etc... Time limits to outings even shopping, constantly have to recap my whereabouts and who i was with and third degree grilling.... altho very frustarting for me and even angering me, I had to see it from his point of view as well.... The anger also came from the fact that he still at that point had good reason not to trust me b/c I was still involved with infidelity behaviors.... My husbands persistent love and not giving up on us attitude is what held us together until I finally came out of my selfishness. I did not make it easy at all, but once I surrendered my ways and my thinking and got the help I needed for some of the underlying factors, I will not say reasons b/c nothing justifies this behavior in my eyes at all, I made the choices and knew they were wrong and still did it anyway..... Mya dvice, open communication and ask your b/f what it is that you can do to help to regain his trust, you will need to have patience with him while he works thru this and it most likely will take many months even yrs to get to that point. Here are a few great links:
Surviving Infidelity
Healing from infidelity
Rebuilding Trust

Good luck and feel free to PM me anytime... </font>