I see now

You've done some very good things there and I admire that. I'm sure some of those people are a PITA lol. Much as I'd love to help older people I don't think I could watch tv for an hour for anyone

You deserve some fun and I hope you have it after you recover from your surgery.
I wish I had some good advice for you. The idea of staying w/ your daughter doesn't sound promising, does it? A few weeks in a post-op convalescent facility would be great if your insurance will cover it.