You haven't replied to me....I hope I haven't upset you in any way. I know how it feels to feels as though you are being attacked...it happened to me on my thread and know how much it hurt so pls don't think I am attacking you. Because I have had my own dealings with an unethical t and knowing the pain I felt to how far I have come now, I am hoping I can use this to be of some help to you.....and anyone else here that has or has had an unethical t. Believe me, I get it. I am not asking questions as a way to attack you.....they are just so i can understand where your mind is at right now. Of coures you don't have to answer but I just want you to know I am on 'your' side!