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My sincerest apologizes for my previous remarks. My own problems shouldn't be used this way. I did not what to suggest that self-improvement is a bad thing. Or that anyone had somehow gave bad advice. You, arcabgel, and drclyde, are only trying to help. Any help at all is a good thing and it's greatly appreciated. So thank you. It does take an awesome character to do things like that. Don't forget it.
Just disregard what I said. I'm too severely learning disabled for my messages to make sense anyways.