I need to get my wife diagnosed. How do I get her to a Psychiatrist? When I've tried to discuss the possibility of ADD or ADHD, she gets extremely angry and defensive. In fact she get angry with most things we try to discuss lately. She has so many things that are piling up and she just continues to run rather than take care of her stuff. I'm also concerned that she will pass this behavior on to our toddler. Is that possible? I really need some help here.