*****((((hugs))))******* You are a human being, with all the good ideas and love and support and wishes for all those you know.

Memories of events, things that maybe others did, are NOT who or what you are. They are things that happened. You are not what you've gone through. But what you have gone through has shaped how you are now.

No one who asks questions of concern, posts support for others, has good wishes for others can be bad inside. You are a good person for caring. You happen to be remembering some not so good things.