That is so very true. Grief has always been set by a persons own timetable. I think a lot of people get over a person (that does not sound in the best way, but I hope you all know what I mean) in a "regular" amount of time. Not that they completely ever get over them, but the grief is not as bad. However, that does not mean that after 2 or 3 months, a person should just wake up and stop grieving either.

Let your own heart be your own guide.