I think it's perfectly possible for a guy to be in a hypersexual mode and not act on it. In fact all guys start off in this way... think of the hypersexual trauma your average teenager goes through. Most of them manage not to run around when they're in their teens.

Women use their imaginations, tell stories, men are more visual... even teen boys, if they have no access to porn, will fixate on pictures of women. So, a man who uses visual aids will find it easier to avoid actual infidelity, if he knows he has a problem and is motivated to get round that problem.

I wish I knew more men who were prepared to discuss this... I'm only talking hypotheticals (from experience) but without a man coming on confirming what I'm saying it's just a load of balloon juice.

But yes, I do believe that a man can find other outlets for his sexuality than thoseb which women use.