hi dylan
sorry you have all this pressure on you right now. i am uncertain what you mean by "dumping" the baby. are yu referring to an abortion or adoption? in either case it would probably be helpful for your girlfriend to go to a family planning agency of some sort to discuss what her options are.

i am more concerned about you right now. what can you do to take care of yourself? it sounds like you are dealing with substance abuse and self injury issues that need to be addressed. its going to be difficult to support your girlfriend when you have such great stressors of your own to deal with. can you seek some counseling to help you deal with your issues?

stay safe and take care of yourself.