I'm kind of the opposite. I thrive on compliments and people liking me. I need some external re-assurance, and I like to hear words. Maybe your love language is not talking. Maybe you would rather have a gift, or a touch?

I think you should let people compliment you if they want. Maybe some therapy to find out why it bothers you so much? I see you have a Bible verse posted. Do you think it is prideful to accept a compliment? I know God expects humility, but he also wants us to accept gracefully the gifts that others give us, if that makes any sense. Anyway, hugs.