Maybe you can find a common ground to work things out on. You might be able to find a way he is open to like sitting down with a list of problems and working on them one by one. I used to try that when I was in a relationship, that is. Or you may find another way you both agree on.
<font color=purple>Peace to you. CQ and the babies.</font color=purple>

<font color=green>"I am beginning to learn that it is the sweet, simple things of life which are the real ones after all."
- Laura Ingalls Wilder
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