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Old Jul 28, 2011, 12:37 AM
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my teacher said: don't say anything that hurts, causes harm, or social dissonance. of course i still do these things, but i hear those words, helping me to stop. i try to see if the person wants soothing, reassurance, or information. the proper response, it seems to me, is to honestly give what is being asked for, not what one loves to hear.
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