I agree I think it is some phase for the majority of people
I some times wonder- where is home- some times I wonder if I will always have this due to I never had roots growing up *(as in my parents never stayed in one place, my mother especially could not stay some where more than 6 months at times). But I remember- Home is where I make it- And that is where you make it
Good Luck and if your bf says he understands I would trust that- I sometime doubt that my bf understand but then in the end it seems like he magically does! (lol)