Words do hurt, I agree. That was really not a nice thing for your sister to say. I agree tho she might have just been trying to make a dramatic way to get through to you. ((((Hopfully21))))

A lot of times with eating disorders, and I find especially with anorexia and bulimia people do not have a clue what to say. It's a really tricky issue to walk around. Many times people tell me I look great after I gain a bit, and this never helps. It actually drives me further. I hope you can put what your sister said behind you, it was mean, and hurtful. It sounds like something a sister would say but later regret as she probably did not mean it.