I can't think of anything in my past that would have caused the inability to trust.

I think I do look out for warning signs, I might even be hyper diligent about it. I don't think I've put trust in any relationship that doesn't deserve it. I tend to analyze the person way before that relationship even begins.

But the problem is that I keep even these people at a far distance. I'm the opposite of innocent until proven guilty, in my books you are a trust-serial killer until proven innocent.

I mentioned it once to my T but she basically said the part about "it takes time to build trust for everyone". Maybe I'll have to bring it up again