As for me before I knew and accepted BP I always thought my husband was abnormal. I had always been hypersexual but did not know it was a symptom of the BP. I had my past adventures but now that I know that this is a sign, I make sure that I just take it out on my husband. It is usually only when I am manic. I can see it coming on because I start to notice guys when before I was not, dream dream dream (which actually feel like its real), and thoughts are always there too.