I'm trying to think about the self esteem thing a bit, i guess it's, i don't know..like for example i can say about myself that I'm a really nice person, caring, compassionate, intelligent and funny. Just some of my good qualities that i know are very true about myself, however if i had low self esteam wouldnt i not belive these good things about myself? Also if someone says i'm intelligent which is true i feel just as bad as if they were saying that say i was good at math ...wich is absolutly not true...so no matter if the complimet is true or untrue...they just both make me feel uncomfortable?...Not sure if that makes sense...