Aren't you over that yet...i thought you were over that....you have to be happy...think about people who are in a worse situation.....
Those are my pet hates. it shows how little people actually listen.
I also dont like i understand but i look at it this way, its a risky thing to say unless you are willing to go a bit deeper in some situations, some times i think we assume too much about others, even those we have known for a long time, what they have and havent seen etc... but there is a big difference between understanding and relating. i dunno how clear that was but i was never good at words!