of course i can trust him. I just talked to him about it. I think if he were doing anything I would have a right to worry about he would have kept it a secret. However, he has been up front with me about everything. He IMed me to tell me that tomorrow when they talk they will only be speaking in japanese. Clearly she is trying to help him learn. She will be at his house tomorrow night for his friends birthday party, and my bf told me I should come over so that I could meet her. He knows I'm extremely jealous and knows that once I meet her and realize that she's not a threat I'll be fine. I told him it's just a lot for me to get used to in a few hours. Just last night they never talked before, and then a few hours later they were at a diner and talking. It all came at once, plus i've been having panic attacks all week, and this added to it and blew it way out of proportion. I get like this a lot.

Thanks a lot!