Brianna84,

I'm really sorry to hear this, I know how stressful being at that crossroad is. I can't tell you what you should do, because I think you should do what you feel is best for you. I guess the way I've looked at it when I left my ex's was how I would feel without them and if I could see myself being with someone else. Think about the fundamentals that you want in a husband and if he fits that for you. Cheating is difficult to overcome, that's for sure. Ask yourself why you did it in the first place though. I've cheated on a lot of my ex's and after seeing an Imago Therapist, I figured out why I've done it so I wouldn't again... and I haven't since. So... why did you do it... what was missing for you that you felt you needed to go outside of the relationship? Very best of luck, I hope the answer comes to you easily!