My husband and I sort of disagreed on a discipline issue with the child. When I try and justify or explain why I feel what I am feeling he simply tells me "I DON'T WANT TO TALK ABOUT IT". So I ask him when - he says never. I really need him to hear what I am feeling and why - he does not want to - he does not appear interested - for he feels his feelings and thoughts are THE only and the RIGHT way to go.
I honestly feel that he is not prepared to see things from my point of view. I try and put my feet in his shoes, I really do - but he does not do the same for me.
As a result - conflicting discipline to a very confused child.
And a very unhappy Mom.
And a happy yet UNhappy wife with a husband who loves but refuses to talk!
What am I doing wrong???
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