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What makes us a target when we are so young?

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This is sort of like a person who was hit by a drunk driver asking what made him a target. Nothing. He just happened to be sitting at the wrong intersection when the other driver was plowing through. There is nothing about you that made you a target, either. You just happened to be born into a situation where abusers had access to you.

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Why is it neccessary for us to hurt?

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I think we'd be robots if we didn't hurt. You hurt because you're human.

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Who would want such damaged goods?

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I know you feel like damanged goods, but that doesn't mean that you are. You're a person who's been hurt a lot, and you've been through a lot of pain. That doesn't make you damaged goods.

Sorry if I "answered" when I should've just listened. Your questions really made me think, though.