i did see a T but i moved and havent been able to find one that i conect with which is why i came here to find help. and it seems ppl who have been through it helps me more. and yes i have a sister that lives like 5 appartments down from us. i live with him. and we are living with his mom,dad,sister,(4 years old),brother,(16 years). no he isnt rushing to get married he just up and aksed me and i said yes. this is when i thought i would never fall outa love with him. and normally i wouldent have jumped into marriage this early but it just kinda happend