((((((( HUGS ))))))) ~ ~ ((((((( HUGS )))))))

As I read your words I had a feeling of.... what about the child that gets hurt in the middle of his parents disagreement..... the confusion he will start to feel inside, not to mention how he will (or has already learned) hat he can now play you two against each other.

IMHO - it is the child that looses here.... A husband and wife must unite as ONE to make the family work (and) some time that means taking the time to hear the others POV even if they do not always agree... for what wounds will only tears apart.

I feel that your husband needs to learn the fine art of accepting that ONES FEELINGS (rather we understand then or not) is important and valid to the one that holds them..... it is apart of the person we LOVE.

LoVe,
Rhapsody -

P.S.
Remember that MEN usually do not like to talk about matters that they have been reprimanded for - it leaves them feeling like a failure.... as if you said those words to him yourself.... YOU are a F.A.I.L.U.R.E!
>>>>>>> (and they call us fickle) - (lol)