my thoughts are with you my daughter is now 21she has behavioural problems and learning dificuloties she was also diagnosed with add while at school she was very hard work because her mind was not maturing so she stayed say pre school it wasnt untill she was nearly 11that she was put on meds , she was put on ritilin1 of the first children in britain to start using this drug this helped her to learn ,
she isnt on ritilin now but tegretol retard for mood swings and risperdone she still has behavioural problems and still hasnt caught up with her true age ,
i know this isnt alot of help but i was wondering if she has any form of learning problems because this alone will make a child act up because they get so frustrated on top of not having anything to do with her mam will be confusing for her also shes at the age were young girls start to change and this also can confuse her, stick with the letting her now shes lovedand hopefully things might start to ease good luck