My advice is don't marry him until you know him well and you are certain you want to do so.
I hesitated and wanted to delay my marriage but my fiance pressured me to stay on schedule rather than wait until I had completed college. I made a mistake; I should have waited.
There is no shame or embarrassment in putting wedding plans on hold.
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The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well. anonymous
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