I can understand your frustration, but if the forum were visible to members only, how would anyone be able to see what the forum was about before signing up? Guests only have limited access to the forum - they can't post or view member profiles. The internet as a whole can be pretty revealing; I guess your best bet is to be careful about what personal info you put on the forum (or anywhere online, for that matter)
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