Turning Flawed into Fulfilling Relationships by Christine Meinecke, PhD
The three best reasons to stop blaming your spouse
Even when it really is his or her fault
When was the last time that blaming your partner accomplished anything other than escalation of negative emotions? Even when it really is his or her fault, choosing not to blame your spouse offers short-term and long-term benefits. In the short-term, you avoid ugly scenes, tantrums, and regrets. In the long-term, you build self-responsibility. Here are previews of the three best reasons to stop blaming your spouse...
http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/...ng-your-spouse
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