there are many ways to connect with each other...be creative. hopefully you both keep your hearts open to one another. if you can't go to counseling together, maybe you both could read up on resolving marriage conflicts. also there's ways to get away from it all and visit nature somewhere as a 2nd honeymoon. (i don't have a clue what i'm really saying because i've never been married) anyways...if i was a counselor, i think Murray Bowen's theories are a good start.... click here---> 8 concepts

<font color=purple> But a stranger in a strange land, he is no one:
men know him not and to know not is to care not for.
Bram Stoker, Dracula, 1897 </font color=purple>