I know...there have probably been a million posts about Facebook but I can't find the information I am looking for.

It sounds simple...if you don't like what's going on any "social media" then just stay away from it.

Right!!....but it's not that easy. It's the same thing here. I've seen a few squabbles now and then but do you have to let one irritation (or a few) drive you away from something you enjoy?

Facebook reminds me a lot of high-school. I wasn't real thrilled with my social life back then either. There just always seems to be that one person that spoils everything. I liked the "idea" of facebook in one aspect because I could socialize in small ways at my own pace. Being one that is not real outgoing...a bit reserved...I could connect bit by bit and joke with a few close friends and family.

But then there's the cross-overs. Even though my profile and pictures are locked down pretty tight I still end up seeing people and their remarks that I would rather not see. And sometimes family Ex-tensions get a kick out of posting unflattering pictures of us for their friends to poke fun of... Nice...really adult behavior.

So tell me....in your opinion is Facebook more harmful than helpful??