Thank you! Any replies are welcomed. Yes it is emotionally draining....and I start to wonder if I have a problem... Why would I want to subject myself to this torture :/ I want to be there for him...but he can run hot and cold....and so much depression and a lot weighing on him that there is no room for me I know. I really want to be done with it and feeling so much for him. I have went to a therapist 3 times with the hope of understanding things....but it is continually on my mind. The only thing I have learned ..after looking at my past ...was how it really comes down to my relationship with my mother...of course. She was extremely critical...I never felt love from her...I was never good enough. I don't feel hate toward my mother...I have forgiven her....she was never a truly happy person and always concerned with her appearance and what others thought of her...or me :P So the therapist said I was attracted to the same type of person...and seeking his approval and wanting to make him happy...the approval I never got from her....I could never make her happy.,....so there is the cycle. I don't know... I guess it makes sense.

Thank you again