Thank you Blue Casper for your heartfelt words, you sound like a friend of mine with your words because he believes the same,,, He is a Genuine amazing selfless person in my mind to feel that way and not want to put others through something like that,, I think your amazing for thinking that way too, putting othersbefore you,,, But I think all people deserve love and happiness and you should not deprive yourself of that,,, Speaking from the other standpoint, im a woman who was told that i could do better than him,,, that he couldnt be with me because of what he wasgoing through, its hard , i would like the chance, i love him no matter what and will be there for him , its so hard to be pushed away from someone i really love, if the girl loves you, shes choosing to be with you knowing your illness and knows what she is getting into,, so let her love you , im going to be there for the guy i love, i love him for who he is, not what others think he should be...