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The way I see it is that it is TOTALLY up to your fiance' to straighten his mother out! He should have a heart-to-heart talk with her, and tell her that his life is his OWN -- and if he needs any input from her, he'll ask for it. But he's GOT to step up to her. Otherwise, this will continue forever.
I had basically the same situation with my ex -- he wouldn't stand up to his mother. I finally had to BLOW -- and after that, she started to behave herself. But I shouldn't have had to do that -- it was up to him.
If your fiance' isn't willing to talk to his mother, then I'd be ready for a lifetime of interference from "Mom." Either that, or rethink your plans to marry. Best of luck & God bless. Hugs, Lee
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