wow..i am so hurt..i got a phone call i wasnt expecting..i got into a relationship and after about 3 weeks i was feeling very jealous..some of his actions were not matching his words and i wasnt sure of anything..well saturday he just stopped calling and never kept the plans we made,,i thought i was being played ..and i decided it was over..but i couldnt get ahold of him to tell him..last night(mon) he called me late and told me what happened..he brought his daughters to a bday party and his ex wife was there,,she wanted to talk,,he said that she told him she wanted to work the marraige out and wants him back..he said he left and took off,,he called a guy friend and went out of town to escape and think about things,,he still has old feelings for her and doesnt know what to do..he said he told her that he had other things going on(me)..he treated me well and i know he cares for me..she abused his children and after only 3 months of marraige she up and took off on him with another guy..what the heck am i suppose to do,,what can i do? do i trust if i just let him go he will come back..do i plead with him not to return to her? do i even give him a chance to come back after this,,its only been 5 weeks since i met him,but we spent alot of time together when we could,,we like the same things(mostly)..i have serious previous hurts from the past(some more recent than others)...this hurts so much..i fell really hard for this guy when i didnt want to..i had a wall up to men and relationships and he just burst right through it very quickly,,now im left alone to try and build myself up again...the saying is if u love something set it free ,if it comes back its yours ,if it doesnt,it never was....what do i do?