I totally agree, and I hate to say it but it has put me off from having kids. I feel somewhat like a baby machine when I am around my MIL as even though we are not married and I haven't got my business up and running yet, she doesn't seem to think that is important, I should be popping them out now to make her happy. She does keep asking when are we going to have kids, but I'm old fashioned and would like to be married first. Her attitude makes me feel a little trapped and unwilling to fulfill her desires for grandchildren.