OR IF I'M LATE!!! GMA45, you have totally hit my tardiness issue! After being told a bajillion times growing up that we don't matter, we are not special to anyone, no one really cares - it's a miracle we show up for our own lives. People say the tardy are selfish, valuing their own time over others', but I don't like to wait for someone and have the stress of thinking they are not coming, because why would they want to see me? Sorry if this is confusing, but thanks for the insight. Upshot is, yes, it's hardest for the people who may need it most, to even GET to therapy.