Can't with a "u" instead of an "a" (makes me grit my teeth and ball up my fists - more degrading than the "eff" word)
"Just another card she's playing" - my father's definition of my bi-polar
Being referred to as "she" when I'm 10 feet away and I can hear every word of the scathing conversation (two women at work like to snipe about me, but don't have the guts to approach me and say it to my face)