I did it and I was surprised. I told him I thought about it and I'm not going. Didn't give him a reason why, just said I wasn't doing it. He said "that's fine. you don't have to go if you don't want to. I'll just come stay with you. They'll just drop me off at your house".

Talk about a total shocker! Now we just have to hope that he keeps his word. He said he would call me in a day or two. I am not getting my hopes up too much between now and then. In fact, I won't believe it until I see him at my door step. But I'm still hoping! Thanks for everyone's support! I'm glad I was able to stand up to him and his wife.