What do you do when you have a significant other who takes it for granted that whevener there is conflict or tension it's you because of your illness?

I hear things wrong. I'm too sensitive. I take "ten thousand pills" every day.

Never her or her enormous talent to spin things in her favor until I've lost track of what the issue was to start with...

I'm just saying. I guess I'm just *****ing. What do you do with a person whom you love but who has absolutely no self insight and who is so defensive you can't even finish a sentence?

At the end of the day I guess I have to trust my own perceptions which I've not really ever done. My own perceptions and interpretations are all I really have