"You should learn to relax and take life less seriously" when I'm worried about something that is IMPORTANT

"You'd feel better if you just stopped whining" ARGH!!!!!

I'm sure there are a lot of others.. Luckily my memory isn't too good. These were just said to me few days ago by a "friend", to whom I'm not talking anymore. I seriously might strangle him the next time he'd say something like that. And that's so not even the worst things he has said to me. OH! And the he has the guts to suddenly make me the bad guy by saying "I'm not talking to you before you start treating me as a person and apologise" ..grrrrrrr!! Why isn't there an exploding from rage -smilie here?

My family is the only one that take me at all seriously, almost all my "friends" are these "you're just lazy" -sort of people.